thank goodness the list is getting shorter

[saffronhare]

Day Seven: Four turn-offs

I seriously don't think I could manage more than four items on any list today, even though I probably have more than four turn-offs if I start to really think about it.

1. Bad personal grooming -- stinky breath, BO, terribly unkempt clothing, scraggly hair. Do not underestimate the power of simply caring to be clean.


2. Extreme disorder of the physical environment. If the environment is seriously cluttered, dirty, or stinky, then I can hardly stand to be there, let alone start thinking sexy thoughts.


3. Being stupid or belligerently ignorant. I'm a sapiosexual and something of an intellectual elitist. So sue me.


4. Being mean or having awful manners. It's all about consideration, you know? If you're rude to the overworked/underpaid cashier or can't be bothered to hold a fork properly, then I'm not all that inclined to offer you any access to my personal space.